Five Things Makeup Can't Do

OK Cool Pinks,

You know I love the cosmetics. And the fashion. And the fragrance. But I have to be honest. There are just some things that makeup won't cover, clothes won't conceal, and fragrance won't erase. I know that seems (virtually) unbelievable lol, but alas, 'tis true. It's always healthy to reflect on the things that you can do to become a better woman--so that the makeup will be that much more alluring. Feel free to share your thoughts. 

Makeup can't....


Serve as a substitute for healthy skin. There are some great concealers out there that can make blemishes virtually invisible. And while those are ideal for quick fixes, especially when zits decide to make guest appearances on days when you need to be super cute (ugh, it happens SO OFTEN), it's best to keep your skin healthy, instead of covering up the problems. Drink plenty of water, take vitamin A and E capsules, and get lots of rest. If your skin is oily and you get breakouts a lot, use a seaweed mask at night to draw out the impurities. I sleep in mine sometimes:)


Cover (all) your least favorite features. Makeup, when done properly, can help to shape your facial features in a flattering fashion. (Wow, that was a lot of alliteration. But I digress). But don't confuse makeup with plastic surgery--or self confidence. If your eyes are too small or your nose is too big, use makeup to your advantage. But don't count on the items in your makeup bag to create a totally new face for you. And don't be so hard on yourself. There are people who think you're really beautiful. And at least one of those people should be you:)


Make him notice you. Can I tell you a secret? Makeup is for other women--not men. Guys don't really even like it when they can tell we have makeup on. Trust me, I have this debate with my honey all the time smh. Nude makeup that gives you an even skin tone and a slight shine to our lips is best for date night--or when you're trying to get that someone special to notice you. Men want to know what you actually look like--not who you pretend to be or wish that you were. Makeup is a touchy subject for them, too--even though they don't quite know how to articulate that. Excess makeup dictates a lack of authenticity in a woman. And men want to spend time with women they can trust. So, stock up on the blush and bronzer--but lay off the purple lipstick--or at least save it for a girl's night out:)


Change your life.Makeup doesn't pay your bills, make your no-good boyfriend change his ways, or give you your dream job. While looking your best leads to feeling your best--which leads to doing your best--don't count on your "looks" to make your life go in a different direction. The right makeup may get you noticed--but that's about all it will get you. When you wash your face at night, you still need to know that you're worthy of love and respect. It seems like common knowledge, but trust me, I come across people every day who need to hear this.


Create internal fulfillment. If you feel great when your foundation, lipstick and eyeshadow are intact, but start to get that sinking sensation in the pit of your stomach at the end of the day when it's time to remove the "paint", it's time for some serious self-evaluation. What is your definition of beauty? How do you truly see yourself? If you could never wear makeup again, what would your reaction be? When your heart and mind are in a place of confidence and peace, all your life choices will be sound (to the best of your knowledge), and yes, that includes your makeup choices:)

Until next time, stay cool--and pink:)